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  • Psalm 100 and the Battle Cry We Forget We Have

    A couple of weeks ago, TSA’s K5 students were gearing up to present Psalm 100 for Thanksgiving chapel. At one point, my youngest son, Beau, spent nearly two straight weeks roaming the house repeating the passage out loud. Over and over. And over. I heard Psalm 100 so many times I thought it was following me.

    But the more I watched him practice—excited, unpolished, and fully invested—the more something hit me: this is worship in its purest form. Not fancy. Not complicated. Just a heart engaged with the Word of God.

    Somewhere along the way, worship tends to get foggy for us. We have preferences, busyness, holiday chaos, and noise layered over something that was meant to be simple. That’s why Psalm 100 is such a gift. In just five verses, it answers all the big questions:

    What is worship? How do we do it? And why does it matter?

    1. Worship Is a Battle Cry (Yes—Really)

    “Make a joyful noise” isn’t about singing on key. The Hebrew word rua means a shout of triumph, the kind of yell an army would release before the battle started because they knew God was with them. That changes things.

    Worship isn’t warm-up music. It’s warfare.

    It’s declaring out loud:

    Jesus is Lord. The tomb is empty. The victory is already won.

    If 90,000 to 100,00 fans can shake a stadium on Saturday’s for a football team, what should God’s people be lifting up for the One who created us, saves us, and fights our battles?

    2. Worship Looks Like Serving Too

    Psalm 100 also says, “Serve the Lord with gladness.” Not grumpiness. Not guilt. Not obligation. Gladness.

    God is anti-earning—but He’s not anti-effort.

    When we serve because we’ve been loved, not because we’re trying to earn love, serving becomes a blessing instead of a burden. Some of the greatest joy in church comes from believers who jump in, smile big, and remind us that worship isn’t just sung… it’s lived.

    3. Worship Is Access You Didn’t Earn

    “Come into his presence with singing.”

    This was a radical statement for ancient Israel. They couldn’t just walk into God’s presence—only the High Priest, only once a year.

    But then Jesus tore the veil from top to bottom. God opened the door Himself.

    We walk into worship like children bursting into their father’s office, loud, excited, and fully welcomed. Not because we’ve earned it—because we belong to Him.

    4. The Why Behind It All

    “For the Lord is good… His love endures… His faithfulness continues.”

    This is the foundation. Not our feelings. Not our circumstances. Not our mood.

    God’s character is steady even when our lives are anything but.

    That’s why worship matters.

    That’s why we shout, serve, sing, and give thanks.

    And that’s why Psalm 100 isn’t just a nice Thanksgiving reading—

    it’s a roadmap for a life of worship.

  • A few weeks ago, Amanda and I took our first real trip together since having kids. Texas. Perfect weather. No schedules. No interruptions from the boys. Just us — talking, laughing, and enjoying our time away. 

    At one point in the trip, we were cruising down a San Antonio highway on our way to a boot store when Amanda suddenly yelled, “WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?”

    I snapped out of a daze… and realized I had literally stopped driving. In the middle of the highway.

    Why? Because I was distracted — by the conversation, by the scenery… and honestly, by how pretty she looked with the Texas sun hitting her.

    We laughed later, but it shook me. One moment of distraction could’ve ruined everything.

    And here’s the truth: it doesn’t take much to drift off course.

    The #1 cause of car accidents isn’t speeding, drunk driving, or reckless drivers.

    It’s distraction. A glance at your phone. A look back at the kids. One moment — and suddenly you’re in a ditch.

    Spiritually, it works the same way.

    The enemy rarely shows up with force, fangs, and fire. He shows up crafty — like the serpent in Genesis 3. Not powerful. Not dramatic. Just subtle enough to shift your eyes a few inches off God.

    “Did God really say…?”

    “Don’t you deserve this?”

    “Is He holding out on you?”

    Eve didn’t fall because she was evil.

    She fell because she was distracted.

    And before we judge her too harshly… isn’t that the story of every downfall?

    David on a rooftop.

    Peter looking at waves.

    Martha in the kitchen.

    Judas counting coins.

    Most people don’t plan to ruin their marriage, blow up their integrity, or wander away from faith — they just get distracted long enough for their heart to follow their eyes.

    The fall of mankind didn’t start with rebellion.

    It started with distraction.

    But here’s the good news: what distraction breaks, devotion restores.

    Scripture says, “I keep my eyes always on the Lord” (Psalm 16:8).

    Victory starts where your focus lands.

    So this week, what if you…

    • reached for your Bible before your phone?

    • created five minutes of silence before you created more noise?

    • looked at Jesus instead of everything else pulling at you?

    Because the enemy doesn’t need to destroy you — he just needs to distract you.

    And the way back is simple:

    Lift your eyes. Refocus. Recenter. Jesus is better.

  • If there was a Hall of Fame for people who’ve impacted my life, my grandfather—known simply as “Pop”—would be a first-ballot inductee.

    Many people have shaped who I am, but no one quite like Pop.  Pop didn’t chase attention or applause. But if faithfulness had a face, it would look a lot like his.

    When I think about Pop’s life, his “faithful resume” says it all:

    • Married for 65 years.

    In a world where commitment is fragile, he and my grandmother built a marriage that endured through all that life brings. 

    • Worked at Armstrong for 42 years.

    Forty-two years at the same company—showing up early, working hard, and doing his best without complaint. Loyalty like that is rare now, but to Pop, it was simply what you did.

    • Served at Fellowship Church for 48 years.

    Nearly half a century of faithful service. He wasn’t the one on stage; he was the one fixing things behind the scenes, unlocking doors, mowing grass, and making sure everything worked. He was the kind of man churches are built on—the faithful few who do the work no one sees.

    As a kid, I watched Pop serve in ways that went unnoticed by almost everyone.

    He’d spend hours collecting and crushing aluminum cans, hauling them to the scrap yard to earn a few dollars—not for himself, but to send to missionaries.

    When the church alarm went off in the middle of the night, Pop was the first to grab his keys and head out the door.

    If something broke, he fixed it. If someone needed help, he showed up. He didn’t wait to be asked or thanked—he just did what needed to be done.

    He believed faithfulness wasn’t about being seen; it was about being steady.

    And that’s what left such a lasting impact on me. Pop didn’t just talk about serving God—he lived it. Quietly. Consistently. Faithfully.

    That kind of faithfulness feels rare today.

    We live in a world that celebrates convenience and comfort. If something doesn’t go our way, we quit. If something gets hard, we walk away.

    The average person changes jobs every 2 to 3 years now—far different from Pop’s generation, where sticking it out was the norm. Relationships, careers, even church involvement—so many things that once lasted a lifetime now feel temporary.

    We’ve become a “no deal” culture: “If I don’t get my way, I’m done.”

    But true faithfulness isn’t built in comfort; it’s built in commitment. It shows up when it’s hard. It stays when others leave. It does what’s right even when no one’s clapping.

    Faithfulness isn’t just a nice quality—it’s a biblical calling.

    When Jesus told the parable of the talents in Matthew 25, the master didn’t say, “Well done, good and productive servant.” He didn’t say “successful” or “talented.”

    He said, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

    That word—faithful—is what God values most. He doesn’t measure us by what we accomplish, but by how we stay committed.

    Faithfulness matters to God because it reflects His character. Lamentations 3:23 says, “Great is Your faithfulness.”

    He is faithful to us—and He calls us to live the same way toward Him and others.

    Faithfulness doesn’t always make headlines—it shows up in everyday choices.

    It’s the parent who keeps showing up for their kids.

    The teacher who pours into students year after year.

    The spouse who stays steady through every storm.

    The believer who keeps trusting when life doesn’t make sense.

    Faithfulness is often small and unseen—but that’s where it’s most powerful.

    Jesus said, “Whoever is faithful in little will also be faithful in much.”

    Everyone wants the “much,” but God starts with the “little.” The small, consistent acts that no one else notices.

    When I think about Pop’s life, I realize his legacy wasn’t built by big moments—it was built by countless small ones.

    Every can he collected, every repair he made, every late-night trip to the church—it all added up to something eternal.

    He taught me that faithfulness isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present. It’s about showing up, doing your best, and trusting that God uses steady hearts to make the biggest impact.

    Pop never needed recognition, but his faithfulness preached louder than words ever could.

    Because when you live faithfully, your influence doesn’t fade when your life ends—it continues through every person you touched.

    One of the most comforting truths about faithfulness is this: God sees it all.

    Every unseen act of service.

    Every quiet prayer.

    Every small choice to keep going when it would be easier to stop.

    Even when the world overlooks it, God never does.

    Galatians 6:9 reminds us, “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap, if we do not give up.”

    Pop may never have received a medal or plaque for what he did—but I have no doubt he’s received something far greater: those beautiful words every believer longs to hear—

    “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

    Pop’s life challenged me—and maybe it challenges you too.

    Faithfulness isn’t glamorous, but it’s powerful. It doesn’t always draw attention, but it always draws God’s approval.

    The world will remember the successful for a season, but heaven remembers the faithful forever.

    So wherever God has placed you—at home, at work, at church—be faithful there. Keep showing up. Keep serving. Keep trusting.

    Because success fades. Recognition fades. But faithfulness endures.

    And one day, when the final chapter is written, may we—like Pop—stand before our Savior and hear the words that echo louder than any applause:

    “Well done, good and faithful servant.”


  • You’ve probably heard the saying, “If it was easy, everyone would be doing it.” There’s a lot of truth packed into those words. The things in life that really matter—like a happy marriage, a thriving career, or even tackling that home project you’ve been dreaming about—take real effort. Starting something feels exciting, but finishing? That’s where it matters, and let’s be honest, it’s not always a walk in the park.

    Think about it: a strong marriage is beautiful, but it’s work. If it wasn’t, everyone would stay married forever. Building a career you love takes years of hustle and heart—otherwise, we’d all be living our dream jobs. And on a lighter note, haven’t we all kicked off a project—like a “honey-do” list or a DIY home upgrade—full of enthusiasm, only to hit a snag? Maybe the instructions got confusing, or you didn’t have the right tools, and suddenly, you’re tempted to call it quits. We’ve all been there. Starting is fun; finishing is the real challenge.

    The Bible gives us a powerful example of sticking with it in Acts 20:22-24, where Paul shares his heart: “And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there. I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are facing me. However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me—the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.”

    Paul knew the road ahead wasn’t going to be easy—hardships were guaranteed—but he was all in. His determination to finish what God called him to do inspires us to ask: What’s our “race”? What are we committed to seeing through, even when it gets tough?

    Here are a few ways to keep going when you’re tempted to give up:

    1.  Know Your Why: Paul was driven by a deep purpose—sharing God’s love. Whether it’s a home project or a big life goal, remind yourself why you started. That “why” will keep you grounded when things get tricky.

    2.  Expect a Few Bumps: Paul didn’t sugarcoat the challenges; he faced them head-on. Those tough moments in your project or goal? They’re part of the journey. That tricky paint job or overwhelming work deadline isn’t the end—it’s just a step and in the end… it’s a way we can honor God through our perseverance . 

    3.  Picture the Finish Line: Paul kept his eyes on finishing the race. Imagine how great it’ll feel to complete your project—a beautifully redone room, a career win, or a stronger relationship. Let that vision pull you forward. But more importantly, seeing Jesus face to face and hearing him say, “well done, good and faithful servant!”

    Next time you’re ready to toss in the towel, remember: starting is for dreamers, but finishing is for champions. Like Paul, let’s dig deep, keep our eyes on the prize, and finish strong. Because if it was easy, everyone would do it—but you’re not just anyone. If you’re in Christ… you’re a child of the one true King.. and here’s the great news… You don’t have this…. You don’t have what it takes.. but He does!!! 

  • This past August, Amanda and I celebrated 11 years on staff at FEC. Looking back, I can honestly say it’s been an incredible journey. Not always easy… but it’s been filled with joy and the hand of God every step of the way.

    What’s funny about serving at FEC is how often I feel like I’m the one being served. I know I’m here to lead and give, but truthfully, I owe so much to this place….

    FEC has given me more than I could’ve imagined—lifelong friendships that feel more like family, a church where my kids are excited to learn about Jesus and are deeply loved, and a community that prays for and supports us through every season. This place has our hearts. I love it here.

    One of the greatest gifts FEC has given me is something I never planned on: my education.

    After graduating from Toccoa Falls College with my undergrad, I had no intentions of going back to school. For those of you who’ve known me a while, you know I wasn’t exactly valedictorian material. But FEC saw something in me and invested in my growth—first through my master’s, and then again when I thought I was done. They just kept believing in me.

    Because of that investment, I’ve been privileged to learn from some incredible professors:

    • Dr. Chris Bounds, Theology Professor at Asbury University

    • Dr. Patric Eby, Director of the Doctor of Ministry Program at Wesley Seminary

    • Dr. Wayne Schmidt, General Superintendent of the Wesleyan Church

    These men have forgotten more than I’ll probably ever know!

    Still, as grateful as I am for those classroom experiences, the greatest lessons I’ve ever learned about following Jesus have come from two people who don’t have a degree to their name: my kids.

    Watching them grow up has been one of the most joy-filled parts of my life. And the way they see the world? It’s changed me.

    Jesus said in Matthew 18:3, “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”

    I think I’m finally starting to understand what He meant….

    Children have this incredible way of seeing the world with a “glass half full” kind of hope. Meanwhile, we adults tend to dissect every problem, overthink, and stress over things we can’t control.

    When their favorite team loses, they don’t critique every play….they point out the good, and then ask what’s for supper.

    When we feel pressure to impress others, they just see “mom” and “dad.”

    When we try to give them the world, all they really want is to be seen, known, and loved.

    Kids have a way of simplifying reality. We, on the other hand, tend to complicate it.

    Maybe we’d all breathe a little easier if we borrowed their perspective more often, if we measured success less by the world’s standards, and more by what really matters: connection, joy, authenticity, and most of all… JESUS! 

    So here’s to 11 years at FEC.

    Here’s to a community that keeps investing in me.

    And here’s to two little professors who remind me every day what following Jesus actually looks like.

  • As the season begins to change and fall settles in, many of us look forward to all of the exciting things. For my family.. it’s the cool mornings, college football, my boys’ birthdays, hunting season, and the list goes on.. One of the annual highlights we get to enjoy is Homecoming Week at Tattnall.

    Over the next several days, our campus will come alive with energy and school spirit. From superhero costumes to  pajamas and, of course, Blue and Gold Day on Friday… students will be celebrating in true TSA style. But Homecoming at Tattnall is more than just a week of festivities… it’s an invitation. An invitation to return, to reconnect, and to reflect on the joy of the “good ole days.”

    Our Homecoming traditions do more than create memories, they remind us of where we belong. They bring us back to a place filled with laughter, friendship, and community. In much the same way, God invites us to return to Him, to find our true home in His love. As Psalm 84:3 says, “Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself… a place near your altar, Lord Almighty.”

    Homecoming reminds us that no matter how far we’ve gone or how long we’ve been away, we always have a place… both here at TSA and in the heart of a God who welcomes us back with open arms.

    So whether you’ll be cheering in blue and gold with us this week or celebrating from afar, know this: Homecoming is more than pep rallies and crownings. It’s a reminder that you belong.

  • Does your week look anything like mine?

    Football practice three nights a week. Church on Wednesday. Game on Friday. Work, family, friends… and maybe, if we’re lucky, a few hours of sleep.

    A few months ago, Amanda and I bought a Skylight calendar. For those of you who haven’t seen them, it’s basically a digital wall calendar that color codes our chaos. It’s been a game changer for organizing everything from dinner to dentist appointments. But I’ll admit: sometimes just looking at it causes anxiety. Every square inch is packed. Some weeks we just stare at it and ask, “How are we going to survive this?”

    And yet, somehow… we do. It all gets done. (Mostly.)

    The older our boys get, the busier life gets. But I’ve realized the real challenge isn’t just doing everything. It’s remembering why it matters.

    Jesus said in Matthew 6:33:

    “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

    That sounds simple…. Until you look at your calendar. 

    If I’m not careful, I’ll let the schedule run my life. I’ll let stress be the boss. And even in ministry, I can forget who I’m doing it all for.

    But here’s the truth: work isn’t just a grind, it’s a gift. God made us to work as a reflection of Him (I’ll be sharing more about this Sunday morning.) That means everything on the calendar…yes, even the dishes and emails can be worship when it’s offered to God.

    The problem? I forget that sometimes. I forget that first things have to come first.

    Seeking the Kingdom isn’t about squeezing God into your schedule, it’s about letting His priorities shape the whole thing.

    So yeah, the calendar still looks like a rainbow exploded on it. But when I pause, breathe, and offer it all to Him, I find a little more purpose… and a lot more peace.

    Whatever you have planned this week… remember- First things first! 

  • Coach Barney Hester.

    A gold standard in the high school football world, and a name that carries a lot of weight around here.

    I had the privilege of playing football under Coach Hester for a few years. Now, I know what you’re thinking:

    “Bet this guy lit up the scoreboard.”

    Well… not exactly. At a solid 120 pounds, I had the heart of a lineman and the build of a kicker’s little cousin. I was one of those players that brought a ton of energy… just not a ton of mass.

    But Coach Hester coached more than just athletes. He shaped men. He led as both our football coach and our head of school, and the seeds he planted in me are still growing today.

    One question he asked stuck with me more than any post-game speech or locker room lesson. It was simple….

    “Where are you supposed to be?”

    At first glance, it sounds like something a hall monitor would ask. But if you lean in a little, it’s actually a question loaded with purpose.

    It’s a question rooted in love, in protection, in wanting you to live a life that actually wins… not just on the field, but everywhere it counts.

    Physically. Emotionally. Spiritually.

    Because the “where” matters.

    In fact, if I made a list of my biggest regrets, I’d bet nearly all of them happened when I was in a place I was never supposed to be.

    Take King David. Giant-slayer. Worshipper. “A man after God’s own heart.” And yet, even he had a moment where being in the wrong place unraveled a lifetime of victories.

    2 Samuel 11:1 says

    “ In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel. And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem.”

    Let that sink in… David should’ve been on the battlefield. But instead, he stayed home. Took a rooftop stroll. Saw something he shouldn’t have. And from there, came a scandal that changed everything.

    One moment out of place led to a mess of a lifetime. Because where we are physically, emotionally, spiritually… It matters.

    So in the words of Coach Hester:

    Where are you supposed to be?

    Are you where God has called you? or are you lingering somewhere comfortable, somewhere convenient… somewhere costly?

    Do you spend time in His Word? Do you seek His presence, or just pass through it?

    Let me remind you:

    Where Jesus is… is where the victory is.

    Power, freedom, purpose — they’re all found in His presence. So if you’re looking for your next step, your breakthrough, or just a solid place to stand…

    Start by asking the question:

    Where are you supposed to be?

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